Crafting personalised and emotional groom speeches

You want to do yourself, your bride and the biggest day of your lives justice. Let us help create a memorable moment on an unforgetable day!

A very happy Groom, smartening up his bow tie after delivering her speech
A very happy Groom, smartening up his bow tie after delivering her speech

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Why SpeechMate?

Writing and delivering a speech at your daughter’s wedding can feel daunting. You’ve only got one shot to get it right and with a lot of things to cover, it can feel like a minefield. Which is why more and more people are choosing to get professional help when it comes to writing their speech. That’s where we come in.
Our team of speechwriters have written hundreds of wedding speeches and know what works. We’ll do all the hard yards so you can relax and focus on enjoying the day.

Personal

We get to know you, your bride and the relationship you share. Then use this insight to create a speech that sounds like it could only have come from you.

Unique

Every couple has their own special bond – tell us about it so we can help you tell everyone else.

Emotional

It will be a day of many emotions. We can help you express them clearly whether you want to tug at the heart strings or just give them a light pluck.

Timely

We’re used to deadlines, whether the wedding is two years away or two days. Left it to the last minute? There’s a lifeline available.

Meet Alex

Hi there! My name is Alex and I’ve been a professional writer for more than 20 years – including speeches, for newspapers, internet sites, radio scripts and personal commissions. This means interviewing people, getting to know them and telling their story is what I do for a living. Having been a groom (just the once), I know how important it is to get the speech just right and tailored perfectly to your bride.

Whether you view your groom speech as a daunting task or an absolute honour, the fact remains—you’ve got to stand up there and say something! Unlike the best man or the father of the bride, there’s no backing out or last-minute replacements for you… so let’s get it done!

It's an honour to help create a speech worthy of the occasion

Alex, Wedding Speech writer for SpeechMate

How it works

1

Purchase your bespoke speech, after which we’ll direct you to complete our online questionnaire. It covers all the basics as well as more personal questions about you, the bride and the memorable moments you’ve shared.

2

Receive a call from us. Typically, you’ll have given us plenty to work with, but we want to get as much detail out of your head and into ours as possible. So, we set up an informal chat to talk through your questionnaire and probe further. Then we get writing.

3

Receive your personalised, bespoke speech by the agreed date. Most clients are delighted with the first draft, but if not, we work with you to make any amendments until you are fully satisfied. If not, then we will give you your money back.

What you get

If you’re not sure where to start then we are – and can take you all the way to the finish. We’ll give you a brilliant speech that flows from the opening word, whether you want to pull at the heart strings, tickle the funny bone, or both. We listen, build up a picture of you and the bride, then use this to craft something you can have confidence in. Your speech will be structured to make sure you take care of everything expected of the groom, while also sparkling with the personality of you and your new wife. Everyone wants to shine in their own unique way – we make sure you do just that!

A personalised speech

Your speech will be tailored to YOUR requirements so it is highly personalised and relevant

Professional speech structure

We write according to a tried and tested structure to make your words flow and cover all necessary wedding etiquette

Tailored to your style

Your speech will be written to suit your personality and humour so it will come across as natural and authentic

Written to your deadline

We do all the hard yards so you can concentrate on your other groom duties

All for just £299

Frequently asked questions

Everything you need to know about SpeechMate

What needs to be in my groom's speech?

Plenty of it will be about your new wife and how lucky you are! But it’s also your job to thank plenty of people – not least your own family and the one you’ve just married into.

 That’s up to you but there is definitely room for both. Just remember any humour about the bride (and in-laws) should very much be laugh ‘with’ not ‘at’

You give us the deadline and we meet it. If the wedding is some time off we can be a little more relaxed. However, maybe the wedding is this weekend – we can do that too. The important thing is to make a plan and swing into action. Either way, we realise sooner rather than later takes a weight off your mind.

We hope that once you see your speech, the confidence you have in it should ease these considerably. We can also offer advice and tips to put you at ease for the big day.

We sincerely hope this doesn’t happen and it is very, very rare. But if it does the amendment process goes as far as ‘rip it up and start again’. Should you still be unhappy we offer a full refund.

Amendments are all part of the service – right up to the big day. So if inspiration hits you get back in touch and we’ll get back to work.

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